Being diagnosed with breast cancer can be a life-changing experience for many women as the diagnosis can have a significant impact on the patient’s physical, emotional and mental well-being. While medical treatment is essential for recovery, receiving strong support from family, friends and through a cancer support network can play an equally important role in the healing process. 

In a large study “Postdiagnosis social networks and breast cancer mortality in the After Breast Cancer Pooling Project” published in the journal Cancer, women diagnosed with breast cancer who had the most social ties, such as spouses, community relationships, friendships, and family members, were less likely to have a breast cancer recurrence and less likely to die from breast cancer than women who were socially isolated. 

In this article, we will explore some ways on how family members and close friends can provide support to their loved ones who are battling breast cancer. 

Listen & Offer Emotional Support

Discovering that she has breast cancer can be a shocking experience for a woman and that can elicit a range of emotions such as anger, fear, sadness and depression[4]. These feelings can fluctuate and may change throughout the day. One of the best ways to support someone with breast cancer is to simply be present with them and allow them to express their emotions. Try not to be afraid when they shed tears as this may be a helpful way for the patient to express her feelings[1]. Holding hands or giving a hug can also be a meaningful gesture of support. 

It is also common for women diagnosed with breast cancer to feel angry about their diagnosis, and they may direct their frustrations towards their loved ones[1]. It’s essential to remember that this is often due to the distress of the cancer diagnosis and is not a personal attack. 

At times, women diagnosed with breast cancer might not want to be reminded about their cancer constantly.  Having a normal conversation about everyday things and sharing a joke can sometimes be very welcoming. Do not take it personally if they do not want to talk about their cancer and respect their need for privacy or to have some quiet time.

Provide Practical Help

Apart from providing emotional support, it can be useful to offer some practical support too. Check in and ask if there is anything specific that they need help with.

Here are some suggestions[2] on how to offer practical help to someone with breast cancer:

• Prepare meals that can be stored in the freezer for them to eat later
• Ferry them to and/or from the hospital for blood tests, scans and medical appointments
• Assist with cleaning or laundry tasks
• Take their pets for a walk or to the vet, if needed
• Offer to do grocery shopping on their behalf
• Volunteer to take their children to and/or from school
• Bring lunch over and stay for a chat
• Check in with them before visiting in case they are not feeling well

Research Treatment Options for Breast Cancer

Once a diagnosis of breast cancer has been confirmed through imaging tests and a biopsy, the breast cancer specialist will work with the patient to develop a treatment plan. The treatment options recommended will depend on the specific diagnosis, but may include a combination of the following: 

Surgery

Surgery is often the first step in the treatment of breast cancer and this may involve either a lumpectomy (removal of the tumour and some surrounding tissue) or a mastectomy (removal of all breast tissue). The type of surgery will depend on the extent and location of the breast cancer. Breast reconstruction options can also be discussed with a plastic surgeon. 

Radiation therapy

Radiation therapy uses high energy X-rays to destroy cancer cells and shrink tumours. Surgery is usually conducted first and radiation therapy may be recommended afterwards to eradicate any remaining cancer cells and lower the risk of recurrence.

Chemotherapy

This involves the use of drugs to kill cancer cells at the original cancer site and any other parts of the body where the cancer may have spread. Depending on the diagnosis, chemotherapy may be given after surgery to lower the risk of cancer recurrence, or before surgery to shrink the tumour. It can also be used to treat metastatic breast cancer that has spread to other parts of the body. 

Hormonal therapy

This is recommended for hormone receptor-positive breast cancer as estrogen can make these types of cancers grow. Hormonal therapy medicines lower the risk of estrogen in the body and block its action on breast cancer cells, thus reducing the risk of recurrence after surgery. 

Learn More About Post Mastectomy/Surgery Care

Changes In Breast Appearance

Whether a mastectomy or lumpectomy is performed, both types of breast surgery will result in noticeable changes to the appearance of the breast and chest area. With a mastectomy, all breast tissue will be removed, and if reconstructive surgery is not performed, the chest will appear flat, often with a horizontal scar where the breast used to be. 

The Can-Care Post-Op Kit which consists of a Post-Op Bra and Post-Op Moulded Breast Form are specially designed for immediate use after surgery to provide a temporary shape replacement without compromising the healing of the wound. A small squeeze ball for hand exercises to reduce stiffness in the patient’s arm and shoulder is also included in the Can-Care Post-Op Kit. 

While breast surgery may not impact how some women feel about their bodies, others may struggle to accept the changes. Apart from reconstructive surgery to restore the natural appearance of their breasts, breast prosthesis, which provides an artificial breast form that can be placed in a bra cup is another option. Can-Care offers a variety of breast prostheses in different shapes and sizes as an alternative to reconstructive surgery. 

Lifestyle changes

After breast surgery, a woman may have difficulty lying comfortably in bed due to restricted movement. Many women find sleeping on multiple pillows placed on their upper back helpful. Keeping the torso elevated also helps to relieve pressure on the surgery area, and helps to reduce swelling and pain. 

The breast cancer specialist may also advise the patient to do some light arm exercises after breast surgery to maintain the mobility in the arm and lower the risk of lymphoedema (swelling of the arm due to fluid retention).  Can-Care has specially-engineered compression arm sleeves which exert a consistent pressure on the blood vessels and lymph network. These sleeves will make it easier for the patient to remove the extra lymph fluid which causes the swelling. After surgery, avoid strenuous activity, heavy lifting and vigorous exercise which may aggravate the arm and impair the healing process. 

The road to recovery for breast cancer patients can be a long and challenging journey. But with the love and support of family and friends, patients can embark on the healing journey with more ease. 

Getting professional support and advice from a breast cancer specialist or professional support network is also important. Can-Care offers a comprehensive range of breast care products, professional counselling services and support programs to strengthen the recovery journey for breast cancer patients after surgery. Reach out to Can-Care, to help support a woman’s non-medical needs during her post-treatment journey.  

[1] Can-Care,”What To Expect After Surgery” 

[2] Breastcancer.org, “Women With More Social Connections Have Better Survival”

[3] Cancer Research UK, “How To Support Someone With Cancer”

[4] Breastcancer.org, “Caring For Someone” 

Other References:

[1] Breast Cancer Now, “How To Support Someone With Breast Cancer”